Saturday, October 20, 2012

What has the power to heal?

1. How people cope physical injuries or disabilities

  • Try not to let people laugh at you or insult your for your disability
  • Don't think of it that much, think happy thoughts to focus anything but the pain
  • Get help or advice from doctors, professionals, or even friends
  • Try activities where your injury or disability won't hold you back
  • Let the injury gradually heal until you can do what you normally do
2. How people deal with emotional pain
  • Think of happy thoughts, distract yourself from it; the more moody you think you are, the more sad and dark you are
  • Spend more time with friends or people who make you happy, good friends are always there for you, talk to them, go shopping with them, play video games with them, I don't know, something
  • Give yourself sometime to calm down
  • Don't let the pain overcome you
      People cope physical injuries by letting it heal and letting it rest, so that it could quickly return to its original state. Usually with the help of a professional  On the other hand, disabled people would not let the teasing of people sink into them and try not to let their opinions overcome them. These people tend to try and think of other more important things, or happy thoughts, to distract themselves from the pain. They also do this to realize what they can still do to keep them busy and still excel at.
      Sometimes you get moody. Or flustered. Or even brokenhearted. What should you do when you meet the situations? First--and most importantly--you must give yourself time to calm down. If your head is clearer, the pain subsides easily. Distraction always helps, people like to think of happy thoughts and do something to keep them company so that they can put the pain aside and focus on other things (without the pain effecting them and breaking them down, of course). Don't let the pain overcome you, instead spend more time with friends and family, people who make you happy can cheer you up and get your mind of the pain.
      What these two have in common is that: both types of pain--whether physical or emotional--are hard to overcome. But not impossible. People who deal with these issues like to distract themselves from the pain. Asking for advice is also quite common and helpful. And most importantly, people who suffer from these types of pain refuse to let it overcome them or rule their life. If you let your disability rule your life, you will never be happy. Instead, turn it into an advantage. Don't let people talk about you because of what you can't do. Instead make them whisper in awe of what you can do better than a normal person can. Don't let emotional pain overcome you. It will make life gloomy. Think of the bright side of life and move on.

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