Is There a Job you were Born to Do?

I don't really know...I mean, how are you supposed to know what you were meant to be born to this Earth, until you see your future???

I mean, if I really had to answer this, I would say "a student".

Every child's destiny is to go to school, whether it's a good or a bad school. You HAVE to get an education in order to fight for your future. Unless you want to be a garbage man or something.

But, until I grow up, I won't really know what job I am DESTINED to do. I'm probably not going to be a queen, a president, or even and Olympic player. But what I DO know is, that every job there is, is possible for me to do and accomplish.

So....I DO think there is a job that I was given to when I was born, I just haven't figured out exactly what that is.

But we'll see....

What are you Willing to Fight for?

Of course you would fight for what you want, but sometimes, obstacles come in the way, and you wonder if what you want is really worth fighting for.

So how do you tell if something is worth fighting for? Are you willing to take the chance and consequences?

Before fighting for something, you have to overcome the feeling of despair. There will be people (or other obstacles) who will try to discourage you, try to make you feel insecure, and want to give up. But what makes a person brave, is to gain the courage to resist all doubts in you.

Hey, this is life...you got to go through SOME pain (or more) to get what you want right?

And how much are you willing to fight for it? That you have to ask yourself. Why do you want it? Does it really mean that much to you? This is also one of the difficulties. But only you can figure it out; the only thing that is keeping you from doing something, is yourself. You choose whether to let the obstacles beat you, you choose to give up or not.

What are you willing to fight for? Ask yourself that. If it's something that you really want, fight for it. If you gave up on it, then it's probably not something that means the world to you and worth your suffering.

Do You Think Before You Act?

It really does depend on a person's attitude and personality.

If he/she were a careful person, he/she most likely would think before he/she does anything.

But if it were a very careless and disorganized person, he/she would randomly make choices and decisions before he/she even thinks. We call these people 'reckless'.

For me, I'm a mix between these two, but if I have the time, I try to think of what COULD happen after I do something. Because not thinking about the consequences beforehand, can really mess you up.

For example, if I had to choose between studying for a test that is the day after, I would probably study because I want good grades. THAT is a decision that I would think beforehand. But if I were playing a basketball match with someone, I wouldn't really have time to make decisions. I would just skip the thinking, and go straight forward....to do the best I can to win :)

Passing quick judgements can be tough, especially to those who are extra EXTRA careful. Which can be bad, but also good.

Reckless people--on the other hand--can really mess up sometimes because they didn't think clearly. But sometimes, you just have to go with the flow and hope for the best. Because you don't ALWAYS have the time to make judgements.

If you were engaging with a murderer, who was holding a knife. Of course you can't think too long, because you might get killed before you do anything =.=

BUT, if you didn't make a good decision on what you were going to do, you'll probably get killed as well. Because if the murderer was holding a knife, and you barge towards him all willy-nilly...without a weapon. Yeah. You'll die.

In a nutshell, it's probably a good idea to balance both factors =.=